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Any first-year anthropology student can tell you there are a lot of happy families and stable societies in the world that aren’t based on monogamy.
Dan, Ellie, and I have met lots of polyamorous people, and each of their situations is unique.
I’ve always been open-minded as far as sexual relationships were concerned and was sleeping with a male/female couple. I told them the nit-picking was bothering me, but it really wasn’t my business how they treated each other, since, you know, it was Our situation felt totally customary to us, so much so that we often forgot that people didn’t expect to see a man out for Valentine’s Day dinner with two dates, or three people snuggling together on a plane. There was twice the energy and convenience of a normal relationship. Dan did dumb boy things and I did dumb girl things and Ellie just watched calmly and loved us like a true negotiator.
We all had a lot going on, but when one of us was busy, the other two were still able to spend time together. Our situation felt totally normal to us, so much so that we often forgot that people didn’t expect to see a man out for Valentine’s Day dinner with two dates, or three people snuggling together on a plane.
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What we have in common is the idea that it is okay to openly and honestly love more than one person at the same time, and that we are free to create our own relationship rules to fit the people in them. And it’s amazing how easy it gets to discuss really sensitive issues when you start thinking of them as culturally, and not personally, taboo.
One of the best lines I’ve heard came from a member of our poly discussion group back home: “A relationship’s value does not depend on its length.” Each stage of a relationship is a part of your life, and doesn’t have to last forever to be successful. It’s not that I value it any less; Ellie is the sunshine of my life.
Dan and Ellie worked together and were known as a couple to a very large network of friends and colleagues.
Our close friends knew the truth – that the three of us were together — but there were uncomfortable situations in which I felt like their dirty secret.
It really sucked that we couldn’t be too open or affectionate without inviting gossip and discrimination.